Introduction
Fatherhood has changed from hunter-gatherer to pre-industrial, industrial, and modern 21st century. A father’s job has changed over time, but he has always had to provide for his family, which often meant he had to travel and spend time away. Today’s fathers still have to spend a lot of time away from their wives and kids (Kashina & Tkach, 2020). Each person loves being a father, but some fathers don’t understand how important it is because so many fathers aren’t around. This has an effect on the individual or the family as a whole. This study evaluates different authors as they hypothesize their knowledge in fatherhood. They all use different ways to bring out the efficiency of a father is society. Therefore, it would be accurate In this post, to generally look at how being a father will affect the ability to help many persons in crisis. This will also evaluate about how being a father will affect how others can effectively help others in society. Being a father is more than just taking care of your family. It allows a father to get to know and help raise his kids.
Strong Relationship
Without a father, children have a hard time living. In his child’s life, a father needs to help and interact with his child well. Without these things, a child’s ability to experience life fully is limited. With “Fatherhood Is Essential,” studies talks about five important things in her work through her personal experiences with her father. Parental support is very important for how a child will turn out in the future (Merzlyakova, 2019). Not only can a father’s support impact a child’s future, but it also helps build a strong relationship between father and child, which is important. If that relationship is broken, a parent can’t see what is happening in his child’s life. According to Bezrukova (2021), Dads are supposed to be there for good and bad times. Many people do not know that have broken up with those depending on them and leave mourning for many days. Because they do not get enough emotional support from their child, a father doesn’t know what his child is like. When a mother is not married, her children are more likely to have had treatment for emotional problems. This is a great reason for a father to help; children should not be forced to deal with emotional problems because they affect how they act in society. A father’s emotional and social support helps his kids in many ways. According to one study, father interaction is linked to children’s overall social initiative, social maturity, social competence, and ability to build relationships with other people.
Balanced Levels
A father’s support should be balanced on spiritual, emotional, social, and mental levels because this is one of the most important things that helps a child grow up. The best and most important part of a child’s growth is having a good relationship with his father. Play is an important way for a child to learn how to be a better person. Assuming, a child sees his father hitting his mother, he will do the same thing someday. Then think about how this principle could be used in a more difficult situation. People should think about this situation: A man yells at and verbally abuses his wife in front of their young child. Perhaps, this will trigger same courage on the child. The young man will keep yelling at and disrespecting his wife in this way for the rest of his life. However, if a child sees his father leave and never come back, the cycle continues. A person may do the same thing to their children if they are still alive. The same is true for a father’s decisions, too (Lee & Lee, 2018). Fathers should better prepare children both mentally and physically and set up a system for dealing with similar situations in the future.
Strong Foundation
Dad’s positive interactions with his kids help them achieve better jobs and careers, less legal trouble, higher academic achievement, stronger relationships with other people, and more self-esteem.” It is good for both the child and the father because it allows men to show love and care for their children. They are more likely to enjoy their relationships with their kids, be more aware of how their kids are growing, and understand their kids better and more. The child’s one-on-one interaction with his father helps them become healthy people. It is true that a father might take full custody of a child and will not stop stopped caring for them, and remain been an effective father and raise them as his own. They live longer and healthier lives, understand relationships better, and have a strong foundation to pass on to their children when they grow up. Experience only may not be the best teacher, but rather evaluated experience in a child. This makes it effective to follow a strong foundation.
Creation Of Unique Parenting Style
A father’s role in his children’s lives is very important in terms of a “substantially different parenting style.” Men and women are bound together. There are different parenting styles between mothers and men when taking care of their children. They love their kids “more dangerously” because they are more willing to take risks because their kids play rough. They expose kids to a wider range of social interactions and a wider range of ways to deal with life. When it comes to discipline, they often put standards, justice, fairness, and accountability at the top. This teaches kids to be objective and thinks about right and wrong consequences (Kashina & Tkach, 2020). They show children how men live. They teach kids how to deal with problems in life and show them what gender equality looks like. As for the last thing, research shows that married fathers are much less likely to abuse their wives or kids than other men.
Engendering Independence
Making their children compete with each other gives fathers a sense of freedom in their children. Instilling a sense of security in their children is one of the many ways mothers make them feel safe. Dads enjoy conceptual communication because it helps their children acquire new words and think more clearly about their thoughts. While moms are known for their understanding, compassion, and willingness to lend a hand, and they place a high value on building strong bonds with their children and other people, dads frequently view their children from the perspective of the outside world (Freeks, 2021). Seeing the world from a mother’s perspective is a unique experience. Both of these approaches to parenting are ineffective whe used in isolation. Together, they teach the next generation to have a healthy, well-balanced perspective on life.
Conclusion
Lack of constructive involvement and support from fathers has a negative effect on children’s growth. A child’s emotional and social problems can worsen if he or she doesn’t get help. This leads to social incompetence and immaturity, which have a negative effect on them from a young age. They make the same bad decision as to their father because they have a bad relationship with him. During the last 40 years, fatherhood and its effect on children have changed. More fathers are involved in their children’s lives, and it is now taken more seriously in communities and at work.
References
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Freeks, F. E. (2021). The impact of a Biblical Fatherhood Programme for faith communities in the Christiana district: A reflective and community engagement strategy. In die Skriflig, 55(1), 1-9. URL: http://www.scielo.org.za/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S2305-08532021000100007
Kashina, M., & Tkach, S. (2020). Fatherhood escape as a significant feature of the gender contract of Russian men. International Journal of Sociology and Social Policy. URL: https://www.emerald.com/insight/content/doi/10.1108/IJSSP-09-2020-0426/full/html
Lee, J. Y., & Lee, S. J. (2018). Caring is masculine: Stay-at-home fathers and masculine identity. Psychology of Men & Masculinity, 19(1), 47. URL: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2016-48136-001
Merzlyakova, S. V. E. (2019). The Features of the Cognitive Image of Fatherhood among Student’s Youth. In icCSBs 2019-The Annual International Conference on Cognitive Social, and Behavioural Sciences (pp. 207-214). URL: https://www.futureacademy.org.uk/files/images/upload/ICCSBS2019F25.pdf
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